Started with a BANG!

...literally and figuratively speaking.

Minutes before 2008 ended, hubby and I wrote our goals for this year 2009. And so far, not so good hehe! If I'm going to summarize those goals, it should be for the better of ourselves and of our family. It's a guide where our marriage relationship is going.

First day of the year, major BUMP! We seldom have one and this time, it's a bang. Don't worry, it all happened with no violence. But it's a record breaking 4 days of cold war. We're able to talk only on the fourth day. I'm glad we're able to sort things out. We both had expectations that we're not able to communicate with each other so when they were not met, there came the bump. But of course love is sweeter the nth time around.

It's just so sad coz we were not able to celebrate hubby's birthday last Jan. 3. When these things happen, sometimes we become too emotional, prideful and selfish that's why lots of time is wasted. Time supposed to be spent just being happy just came passing by. Anyway, the month's not over yet. Need to be reminding hubby of our date which should be at least twice a month as one of our goals.

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